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lorcan cooke's avatar

What an incredibly well written piece, it appears to be from a little while ago but sorry for your loss Stephen.

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Absolutely outstanding a legend in our times. ❤️🇮🇪

Lizlyn 🌻's avatar

A beautiful tribute to your lovely grandmother, Stephen.

Our traditional Irish way of mourning is something that helps immensely with healing.

Family and friends together remembering the person who has died and the stories connecting your family.

As you have so rightly pointed out,

"family and love are the things we need more than anything else to sustain us"

Your beautiful memories and your loving, proud, talented family will get you through the lonely days, please God.

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Thanks so much x

Torna Braggison's avatar

My heartfelt condolences for your loss. I just lost my father a few weeks back. I believe the greatest thing we can do is carry on in their stud. May her beloved family continue to honor her legacy.

Priscilla Gallagher's avatar

Oh my sincere condolences Stephen to you and your family. Grief is never easy but grief for a dear loved one is so much harder. Your Granny will be looking over you all from heaven. She had a truly beautiful funeral service and I especially loved the inclusion of a Piper (that is also my wish) and what a brilliant Song she chose to comfort her grieving family as she left the Church. She spoke to you all in that Song. A great woman by all accounts. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a h-anam dílis 🙏.

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Thanks Priscilla x

SARA's avatar

Brought tears to my eyes genuinely, I feel I got to know this remarkable irish woman, her kindness, intelligence, strength, her indelible mark and influence on your family and whole community.. all through your words and photos .. your love for her radiates.

So sorry for your inestimable loss Stephen and a big hug to you during this difficult time.

una mc gurk's avatar

Well done Stephen. Have no doubt you were a legend to her too.

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Thanks Una hope you are keeping well

Frank Lennon's avatar

Aw Stephen! Wow! What an incredible piece. As moving as it is beautiful, in all its aspects. Your Nan (RIP) comes across indeed as an amazing and cherishible lady who meeted out so much practical love throughout her, thankfully, long lifetime. It is said that apples never fall far from the tree. In that context I think that you can be justifiably proud to be among the associated apples, at this time. God bless you and all of your family and may Nan, while resting in peace, none the less dip in, once in a while, with wisdom projected via the ether, to her beloved family. 🙏🇮🇪🙏

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Thank you Frank

Louise Roseingrave's avatar

This is so beautiful to read. Im so glad you recorded her, listening to that next. RIP Nana what a great send off you gave her ❤️

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Thanks Louise, she was very special

Dr Anne McCloskey's avatar

A beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul, Stephen. The Irish customs around death-the wake, the vigil, the funeral and the joyful celebration of a life well lived are so helpful in a time of great loss. Thank you for sharing the story. Go ndeana Dia trócaire ar a n-anam.

Stephen Sutton's avatar

Go raibh míle maith agat Anne x

Fionnuala Murphy's avatar

Kathleen was a gorgeous lady and she was blessed to have had such a lovely caring family. You gave her a terrific send-off and I hope she RIP

Stephen Sutton's avatar

She will be sorely missed

Fionnuala Murphy's avatar

You know Stephen, in the photo with your nan and grandad, you look like your grandad, but in another photo, you look like Kathleen. You got a bit of both and you are a credit to them. I'm sure they'll be watching over you. Isn't it sad how all that they accumulated, all that they learnt goes with them. You're lucky that you spent such a long time with them, so it will have rubbed off. Anyway it's good that at least she lived a very long life being loved by her many offsprings xxx

Stephen Sutton's avatar

The sad part is her mind was still perfect only her body gave up. That’s what hurts.

Fionnuala Murphy's avatar

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Midlander Paul's avatar

A lovely emotional tribute.Sounds like she was one of a kind,they don't make them like that anymore.

Stephen Sutton's avatar

They sure don’t

Ronan Mcgregor's avatar

Beautiful tribute to your Nana, and so sorry for your the loss Stiofán.

Anne Barr's avatar

So lovely

Conor's avatar

Condolences to you and your family

The Celt's avatar

Condolences to you and your family Stephen

Stephen Sutton's avatar

🙏🏻🙏🏻